Thursday 22 October 2009

No improvement in weakness, home coming delayed

Kay is still not eating very much and remains very weak. She's been moving around a little today and has been outside for a breath of fresh air. However, whilst in terms of cell counts and treatment there's no reason for Kay to stay in hospital, the doctors are concerned to stabilize her weight loss and nutrition before letting her go home. We hope that this will be tomorrow evening, but we'll have to see day-by-day.

In herself Kay is doing very well. She had a quiet word with one of the nurses today, who then took Marion & I on one side and told us that Kay had asked her to interceed on her behalf: we were bothering Kay too much with our concerns about her lack of appetite and the need to eat. So we have learned our lesson and backed off on the subject. I said that Kay was dealing with all this better than Marion or I!

Kay had a bunch of questions about the treatment, schooling, hair loss, etc, that she wanted to put to some of the other patients of her age. The hospital has a team that facilitate this using video. Kay has written her questions down with the help of one of the team members and I gather that the video team will then use these questions to interview some other girls on the ward. They will then make a DVD of the interviews and give it to Kay. This keeps a layer of privacy and discretion (and isolation), but also helps these kids out. Cool, or what? I tell you, this is a brilliant place.

3 comments:

  1. Dearest Kay,

    I hope your appetite improves a bit over the next few days and that you will be home again very soon. Good to hear that there is such good support around you in hospital. Luke (my 4 year old boy) was looking at the computer screen while I was reading your blog and he pointed at your picture and said "That is a very pretty girl!" Spot on I reckon! Being a boy he also asked whether you were allowed to bring your toy weapons into hospital... yes, boys are indeed different from us girls!

    With love, Philippa, Brett and Luke xxx

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  2. hi kay, good to know that you may go home,but in a way is good to be with people that have the same feelings. keep encouraging everybody as you do. Love
    Alex

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  3. Hello Kay, It sounds to me as if you're coping really well. Hope you soon feel able to eat again and the doctors will let you go home quite soon. But it seems like a fantastic hospital that you're in. Take care.
    Love Linda xx

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